My daddy instincts kept getting triggered with him… ? He would make an incredible boy for some top daddy… I don’t know if he just knows the buttons to push with guys like me or if he’s genuinely that way, but I liked our chat a lot… I kept getting the sense that he was sorta vulnerable and that he needed a protector. To me that’s just incredibly divisive…Īnyway, back to Mason… After an hour talking with him I really got the sense that he’s a sweet, somewhat submissive guy… He kept calling me ‘Sir’ which was pretty endearing. Strangely, the poz-hostile condom producers (who are supposed to be pro-condom) are basically saying condoms are only for neg guys, which means condom usage tends to continue to based in fear – it’s all about neg guys protecting themselves from dirty/evil poz guys. It’s a statement that really needs to be made – that you can be poz and sexy and there’s a (sex) life after testing poz. In fact I sorta dare any (major) condom company to break the conventions and use Mason as a regular performer (more than a few scenes). It won’t surprise me if the world of condom porn continues to shun poz guys – there’s a reason why we call them “Condom Nazis”.
I think he’s just now realizing that’s not the case – that he’s totally welcome in bareback porn, and there are other condom porn companies that don’t have a problem with him either. As a result when he became poz he assumed his porn career was over because that’s what he was told by his production company – the anti-poz crowd was the only reality he really knew. To his production company, if you’re poz you’re an undesirable leper. For example, his production company refuses to work with poz guys – they won’t even pair poz guys up with each other and have them do condom porn. I still think that the ‘milieu’ he was in was not all that great. Now he’s starting to chat with some poz guys, but they don’t live near him – but at least he gets to interact with them one way or the other. I have a similarly codependent relationship and if we weren’t in Manhattan and if my bf weren’t a “people person” I’m sure I’d be in a similar situation. Apparently his day-to-day life is pretty solitary – it’s just him and his boyfriend. But he’s a porn star, not a copy editor – so I’ll excuse that now that I’ve heard his side of things.Īfter chatting with him for an hour the worst thing I can say about him is that prior to testing poz he didn’t have any poz friends – so he may not have really understand what it’s like to be poz. He looks at it and sees his original intention, but others of us fail to see that intention. The real issue was the he didn’t communicate his thoughts clearly enough in that blog post. At a minimum I think you’ll be able to see where it can be interpreted as hostile, even if that wasn’t his intention. I’ll let you decide what you think of it. He swears I misread it and he his intention was to make fun of the stupidity of people who do fear-based anti-bareback campaigns. Even to this day I think it’s pretty hostile to poz guys and guys who bareback. Well, after talking with him, I tend to believe 1) he really was raped, and 2) he really is poz.įor me the thing that really made me not particularly like him (as a person) was his blog post back in October 2008. So this time some people wondered whether this too was a publicity stunt. People then wondered whether there was merit to the rape allegations – thinking it had all been a publicity stunt. The skepticism comes from the fact that previously he said he had been raped but then then didn’t follow through with the police investigation. Some people even started openly wondering whether this was a bit of a publicity stunt. Someone outed him as poz before he was really ready to make it public, and then, given his history, people started saying all sorts of things about him. The last week or so he’s had a lot of shit thrown at him. As a result of the chat my opinion of him has changed for the better… I had a long IM chat yesterday with Mason Wyler (a bit over an hour).